Being an older man, I am 76, I was raised during a different out look on many things, especially sex. I began my sex life at age10, how is a fairly long story, but like most men and some women, I was the only participant. At age 18 I took a summer job on a merchant ship. We sailed from my home town New Orleans. The radio operator was just a few years older than me but he made it his lifes career to get me laid. He took me to various "houses of ill repute" in many South American cities. This was 1948 and many were truely Banana Republics at that time. Down alleys there were smells that were terrible, many of human origins. None of the women were someone I would want to remember.
The last port was Paramaibo, Durch Guina, now Surinam. Sparks knew a young woman, who was a summertime prostitute. She was a college girl, maybe 20, pretty, smallish breasts. BUT, I was close to being broke. That port was known for the good merchandise at good prices, and I bought a lot of souvigniers, as did almost all crew members. At a movie that night. Karla sat between Sparks and me. She allowed me to fondle her breasts and my hand went down her scoop neckline. Her smallish breasts were the first I felt skin to skin. She would not play with my ****, because she would not want to make me shoot off, for free.
Please tell us how you lost yours, I love to know the sexy details.
Back in New Orleans, October is one of our nicest months. I went to a brothel, rather to a bar, next to the brothel. One woman who was in a dress, like Karlas, but with very sexy cleavage, approached me. We agreed on a price and went to her bare bones room, with hanging electric wire light. Before getting naked I had to unzip and milk down my ****, seeing no sign of clap, I had to give her the money, I seem to remember, it being three dollars, and I took off all my clothes. When I saw her take off her bra, she was almost as flat as me. She lay down instructed me to get on top of her, helped me find her "port of entry", I gave only about five strokes, shot my wad, she said,"Congradulations", now get off of me and get dressed. I just wish it had been Karla
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Please tell how you lost your "innosence", especially if it was with a gf or bf. Back in my youth, most men dated "nice girls", which meant, her mother preached to not let a boy, feel, see or do anything that wouid ruin her reputation. The sexual revolution, passed me by
To a male friend of the same age. Sadly I can't actually remember the specific time we did it, I just know it was him and the approximate age - 13/14. Not long after, I started fooling around with a female friend too...
viginity isnt such a big deal these days. i bet alot of people havnt even experienced making love. people are having sex from as young as 10 or 11. much love
IMHO, a woman doesn't need to be with a man to lose her virginity. A first time penetration by a partner with either fingers or a dildo would count. Although I've been with both women and men (now exclusively women), I feel that I've "lost my virginity" to a woman, because she was my first sexual experience . That encounter I will never forget. The first man I had was very forgettable. I don't even remember his name!
And to those ignorant enough to marginalize lesbian sex by thinking that "two women together don't count"......**** 'em. They're idiots.
Glad someone agrees with me. Yep, my first time was something mind blowing for me. She was my best friend, in hope more than expectation that we'd ever be more, but one day we both finally conceded our feelings were bigger and it was everything I'd hoped and better.