Being a man of more years than I would admit to many, especially to a lovely woman, I find that women are not in my future. Future, meaning sex, future. Bring a child of the Great Depression, becoming a non virgin was not something as easily accomplished as today. Just muttering a word like "Breasts", was whispered if a woman were nearby.
Not being a man who could accept the "sexual revoluntion" and profiting from it took many years, because having a wife and two kids kept me busy. My first one nighter happened by accident, as most seem to occur. I was hired as extra security at a bar that expected a record breaking night, because they hired a rock band that had a great following. When the night arrived it turned out to be one of the coldest, and killed the need for a secutity checking Ids and the boss told me to stick around but to mix with the customers if I want.
A tall woman, about 30, un attached and very busty caught my eye. I bought her a drink, Jack with a splash of water. Lynn said she loved to dance and catching the opening i agreed. It was a semi slow tune and cheek to cheek was much more sexy. I muttered something about, something about me that she should know, I took her right hand and made he feel my service 38 cal pistol, that was hidden by my blazer. Her eyes light up, looked me in the eye, and said,"COP. you are a cop" Why some women get turned on by a cop is confusing but welcome. We has a late meal at a greasy spoon then because she had both a room mate and a child, and I had a family I had my last sex a car.
But I, look back on another occasion with regret. I was volunteering wirh a health organization, mostly, I provided security at fund raising events. But one day I got a phone call from the patient affairs coordinator. A whellchair female patient needed some minor "honey do" jobs. I gathered some basic tools and headed for her address. She turned out to be a fairly attractive woman of about 27 years. The small jobs were very minor. A nail in a porch board that squeeked, a loose door knob and a driping bath room faucet. Over a cup of coffee, Rachel began mentioning that being wheelchair bound had many more problems than healthy people do not think of. Rachel said that men are turned off by a wheelchair, and that meant that lead to being sexually fustrated her. At that time I had a young wife that I was deeply in love with and two kids in their preteen years. So I did not see her plight in the way that I could have.
Its called a pity f--k. But I was also leary about getting involved with a handicapped woman who could make problems. I could have taken her problem, sarisfied her need and tell her that I would get some college man to be her "handy man'.
I do tend to be wordy. But now I would love to have an affair, but giving her an orgasm would have to be, by oral and finger means. Not all men become ED, but I am a Prostate Cancer, survivor, and having 50 radio active seeds into my prostate, which is just an inch or so from my testicals had done a permanent problem. I had to laugh at a dental tech last week who laid a lead apron over my crouch. That is a way to protect your ability to get aroused.
